Which flowers are best for sympathy?

White lilies, white roses, carnations and chrysanthemums are the flowers most often sent for sympathy. They are calm, soft in color and carry meanings of peace, respect and remembrance.

Which flowers to send for condolences?

• Lilies: peace and the restored innocence of the soul.
• White roses: reverence and humble love.
• Carnations: long-lasting, and a symbol of remembrance.
• Chrysanthemums: a traditional flower of mourning in many cultures.

Can flowers be given for condolence?

Yes. Flowers are a kind, widely accepted way to show you care. Send them to the funeral home, the church, or the family's home, and include a short, sincere card such as "Thinking of you and your family."

A few points of etiquette

Choose softer colors over very bright ones, and check the family's wishes: some ask for donations instead of flowers. When in doubt, a simple arrangement or a plant is always appropriate.

Where and when to send sympathy flowers

If there is a service, ask the funeral home for its delivery address and times, because flowers are often received before the service begins. Otherwise, send them to the family's home a few days later, when the first wave of visitors has passed and a bouquet is a welcome sign of continued support. Add the family name and a short, sincere card.